In February, on my mother’s birthday, I will be giving this tribute to her. I believe many people who hear this or read it will relate, because just like many loving mothers, my mom has always been there for me. She’s been a steady part of my life from the beginning, and I’m thankful every day for everything she’s done for me.
I’m writing this tribute because my mom has supported me from the day I was born. She’s helped me through every part of my life elementary school, middle school, and even now. I know she’ll keep helping and guiding me throughout the rest of my life. She has taught me so much, not just through her words, but also by her actions. Some of the most important lessons I’ve learned came from her.
She’s always reminded me to treat people with respect, no matter who they are. She’s taught me to be kind to lift others up, and never to judge someone just because they do things differently than I do. Whether they have a different background, religion, or opinion, she says everyone deserves kindness. She also told me that if I go after something in life I should give it my best effort and not give up halfway.
One memory that stands out is from first grade. I was stuck on a question on my math homework assignment and getting frustrated because I didn’t understand the concept. I asked my mom for help, and without hesitation she sat down and worked through it with me. Thanks to her, I did well on that assignment but more than that, I learned that patience and kindness can really change someone’s day. That small act of love has stayed with me ever since.
Another big moment was in fifth grade. I got into trouble at school for bullying someone I didn’t like. The teacher called my mom, and I was nervous about going home. She was disappointed, but she didn’t yell or hit me. Instead she sat me down and told me that it’s okay not to like everyone but that doesn’t mean I should be mean to them. She said I should still show respect, even to people I don’t get along with. Until then, I didn’t understand how important it is to treat everyone kindly, even if they’re different from me or if we don’t get along. That talk changed how I see people, and I’ve carried that lesson with me ever since.
These are just a couple of examples, but there are so many more times when my mom has taught me, supported me, and stood by my side. Whether I’m struggling, confused, she’s always there. Her love isn’t just in what she says it’s in what she does every single day.
So today I want to say thank you. Thank you, Mom, for being there for loving me and for helping shape me into the person I am becoming. You are my role model, my teacher, and my biggest supporter. I love you more than words can say.In February, on my mother’s birthday, I will be giving this tribute to her. I believe many people who hear this or read it will relate, because just like many loving mothers, my mom has always been there for me. She’s been a steady part of my life from the beginning, and I’m thankful every day for everything she’s done for me.
Brian Anih – Salisbury School – DMSF Class of 2029
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