When I first started playing basketball, I was in 5th grade. I didn’t know much about the sport, but I knew it looked cool. The players ran fast, made crazy shots, and the crowd always cheered. I fell in love with the game quickly. But looking back now, I realize there were some important things I wish I knew back then.
First, I wish I knew that loving basketball meant more than just playing in games. I used to think that practice was boring and only the games mattered. But now I understand that the real work happens in practice. The drills, the sweat, and the mistakes are all part of getting better. If I had taken practice more seriously, I probably would have improved a lot faster.
Second, I wish I knew that it’s okay to fail. When I missed a shot or turned the ball over, I would feel so embarrassed. I thought everyone was judging me. I didn’t realize that even the best players in the world mess up. What matters is how you bounce back. I now know that failure is just part of learning, and it doesn’t mean I’m not good at basketball.
Another thing I wish I knew is how important teamwork is. In the beginning, I just wanted to score points and be the star. I didn’t pass the ball much, and I didn’t listen to my teammates. But basketball is a team sport, and it’s not fun when one person tries to do everything. I learned that passing, communicating, and trusting my teammates makes the game way better—for everyone.
Lastly, I wish I knew how much the game could teach me about life. Basketball taught me about hard work, patience, and not giving up. It helped me build confidence and make friends. It’s not just a game; it’s something that helped shape who I am.
If I could go back in time, I’d tell my younger self to enjoy the journey, not just the wins. I’d say, “Work hard, don’t be afraid to fail, be a good teammate, and always keep learning.” Also I’d tell myself my favorite quote “Hard work beats talent when talent fails to work hard.” – Kevin Durant. That’s what I wish I knew back then. But I’m glad I know it now.
Deravion Calcote – Chicago Hope Academy – DMSF Class of 2029
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