Dear Summer 2025 Melody,
It’s your future self, and I have many things to tell you. First of all, I want you to know that you worked incredibly hard to get where I am now. There were so many moments when you doubted yourself, wondered if all the work was worth it, and felt overwhelmed with everything happening around you. In a couple of months, you will be face to face with stress of eighth grade, balancing schoolwork, sports, and extracurriculars. It wasn’t easy, but what matters the most is you never gave up. You made the most out of your last year of middle school, and now you’re preparing for high school!
In fall of 2026, you will be attending Lake Forest Academy as a boarding student! I know boarding school wasn’t something you seriously considered at first, but taking a different path turned out to be one of the best decisions you could have made. You also got the Daniel Murphy Scholarship! I know you heard a lot about it in HighJump, and I eventually applied and got in! I’ve learned that change can be scary, but it’s also what makes us grow into more strong, confident people. You should be proud of yourself. Try to remember that every interview, essay, and late nights will be worth it in the end.
You put academics, sports, and the high school process first, which led you to forget to put yourself as a priority. You carried a lot of stress, and you weren’t in the best state. Remember that it’s okay to slow down sometimes. When you need a break, take it, you deserve it. Make time for the things you enjoy, such as reading, spending time with friends, and playing sports. This will help you recharge when you’re feeling overwhelmed.
Setting aside obstacles, eighth grade became one of your most memorable years yet. You actually enjoyed going to school (shocker), you made friendships stronger, and even became friends with people you never talked to. You also graduated from HighJump, and you even did a speech at the graduation ceremony! Our school also had its first eighth grade trip, and it was in New York City. Every moment of that trip, from exploring NYC with your friends to shopping around 5th Avenue is something you will treasure forever.
Overall, this was a school year filled with memories, growth, and accomplishments. You overcame your challenges and achieved your goals. As you are starting eighth grade soon, I advise you to make the most out of every moment. Don’t let fear come in the way of doing the things you are new to. Take lots of pictures, laugh a little more, and don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone. Some of the best memories you will make will come from the moments you almost didn’t say yes to. Always believe in yourself because you are capable of incredible things. The challenges that are ahead of you are just stepping stones to become the resilient person you are now.
With Love,
Melody
Melody Garcia-Ramirez – Lake Forest Academy – DMSF Class of 2030
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