People are taught to treat others how you would want to be treated. So if you’re being rude and racist to someone who doesn’t look like you, is that how you want them to treat you back or do you want to be respected? Try being in that person’s shoes, then you can see how when you feel like no one is on your side they become the expectation you see them as. Think of that person as if they were your best friend. You might be skeptical at first but when you treat someone with respect they will return the favor. If you’re still not convinced enough, why not hear some ways approximately over 90.8 million people of color were/are treated.